Owning a Doll in a Relationship: How to Make It Work

If you were to tell me a few years back that I would be happily married and that I would own a doll at the same time, I would have doubted the fact that I was married. And against all odds, here I am with the woman of my life and the doll of my dream.

It was not always easy nor was it straightforward, and I will in this article relay my experience in owning a doll and maintaining a healthy marriage.

Discovering Gamelady During a Lonely Period

For context, I often work remotely from home while my wife is busy at the hospital where she works. Needless to say, the days were really long without her, and I was feeling really lonely.

Through some research, I discovered the world of dolls and Gamelady, and it was nearly an instant buy (after some long discussions with my wife).

My Wife’s Initial Reaction to the Doll

When we received the doll, the problem was not the product but my wife. She was really jealous of the doll and her perfect sexy body.

How We Started Enjoying the Hobby Together

It took some time, but my wife started to get used to the doll and she started enjoying the hobby with me.

She would often help me put on new clothes or cosplay on the doll, help me pose her, set up the lighting, and take pictures.

If at first my wife was not into it, she started to enjoy this hobby with me, and I believe it brought us closer in a way.

It also helped me to feel less lonely in our house when she was not there, and it motivated me to keep a tidy house and work around the house so that the doll would not get dirty and stay clean.

Discussing Intimacy With a Doll

Now that it is stated, let’s talk about the elephant in the room: sexuality with a doll.

At first, my wife didn’t want to even think about bringing the doll into our bedroom. She used to say that it was “my” sex toy and that she would not “use it on me.”

But after some months, and after she started to take care of the doll too, she started to propose the idea of a “threesome” with the doll.

How the Doll Changed Our Relationship Experience

To be frank, the first time it was really awkward and weird. We didn’t know how to do it as we didn't have any experience with it.

But now everything is going smoothly. It feels like it gave a new dimension to our sexuality without passing any pre-determined limits we had.

It makes our sex life all the more exciting.